Q1) Self-perception is an important aspect of personality and it is often influenced by others surrounding an individual. In the institution of family, members who are close to an individual play an important role in shaping their self perception. Of such instance, was the influence of my mother in developing my own self-perception. As an infant I was very shy to speak what was on my mind and reluctant to fight back with other children who used to bully me. I always used to get pushed around and found myself conforming to others due to peer pressure. Whenever I used to come back home crying, I expected my mother to come back with me and scold the children or speak with my teachers so that I wouldn’t be bothered again. However, I remember that instead of doing what I expected her to do, my mother would ask me to go back to school or in the playground and try to resolve my issues with the children (unless it was something quite serious). I remember getting very annoyed by her behavior, but I specifically remember her teaching me to stand up for myself and fight for what I believe is right or wrong from an early stage. If I used to find myself under peer pressure, she helped me understand that standing up for what I believed was right or wrong because in the end I would have to face the consequences for the outcomes. My mother initially taught me how to be confident and how to learn to speak for what I believe was right or wrong. I also remember that because how she helped me deal with my problems during my adolescence years, I have become a people’s person instead of being an introvert.
Q2) I can still hear my teacher, Mr.Oulette’s voice in my head when I am beginning to take on a novel objective or task. He was my 5th grade teacher and one of the very first mentors who taught us to take initiatives. He especially taught us to be confident in ourselves and to always keep ourselves alert and attentive for new opportunities and knowledge. It was through his creative teaching abilities that initiated our class to participate into our learning and ask questions to become more attentive. This helped me to build my self-perception to become attentive to others, pay attention to detail, and embark self initiative into doing things that in the greater run help me become more organized and accomplish my goals faster.
Q3) My best friend, Clara, is someone who I had met in the 6th grade. I was new at my elementary school and she was one of my very first friends. She was very straightforward and open about what she felt, thought and perceived. While I was a bit shy in my adolescence years and often myself doing things under peer pressure, she always did what she felt like and was least bothered about what others might think or say. She was confident in herself and was very open about her views and beliefs about different things. She helped me to become a confident person as well, and helped me come out of my shell from being a shy individual to someone who was bold and outspoken. Because she always stood by me when I decided not to conform against peer pressure, she helped me become confident as well.
Q4) The article talks about how individuals are concerned about their outer appearance and how it affects their confidence and self esteem. The author claims that along with having a confident self perception about one, it is also becoming increasingly important for individuals to maintain an eminent physical appearance of themselves, which is why many have turned to plastic surgery to make changes in their appearances according to how they perceive themselves beautiful.
Q1）自我知觉是人格的一个重要方面，它往往是由个人影响周围的人。在家庭制度，谁是接近一个人在塑造他们的自我感知扮演重要角色的成员。这样的实例，是我母亲的影响，在发展自己的自我知觉。作为一个婴儿，我是说在我的脑海里，不愿意与谁欺负我的其他孩子是很害羞的反击。我总是去摆布，发现自己与别人是因为同龄人的压力。每当我回家哭，我希望我妈妈回来我骂孩子，我不会再打扰我的老师说。然而，我记得，而不是做什么，我希望她能做的，我妈妈会让我回到学校或在操场上，试图解决我与孩子的问题（除非它是一件很严重）。我记得我很讨厌她的行为，但我特别记得她教我自己站起来，争取什么，我相信是从早期对或错。如果我用同伴的压力下找到了自己，她让我懂得了坚持做我认为是正确的或错误的因为在最后，我要对结果承担后果。我妈妈开始教我如何自信，学会如何做我认为是正确的或错误的说。我还记得，因为她是如何帮助我解决我的问题在我的青春期的年，我已经成为一个人民的人而不是一个内向的人。
Q2）我仍然能听到我的老师，在我的头mr.oulette的声音时，我开始对一种新的目标或任务。他是我第五年级的老师，一人教我们采取主动的第一导师。他是教我们对自己有信心，始终保持自己的新机遇和新知识的警觉和专注。正是通过他的创造性教学的能力，开始我们班参加我们的学习和问问题变得更加周到的。这帮助我建立我的自我感知到关注人，关注细节，走自我主动做的事情，在更大的运行帮助我变得更加有组织和完成我的目标速度。
Q3）我最好的朋友，克拉拉，是人，我曾在第六年级。我在我的小学是新的，她是我的第一个朋友。她是非常简单的和开放的感觉，思想和感觉。虽然我有点害羞我青春期年经常和自己的事情自己做同伴的压力下，她总是做她想和最在意别人说什么或想什么。她相信她自己对自己的看法和信念不同的东西很开放。她帮助我成为一个自信的人，以及，帮助我走出我的壳从有人大胆和直言不讳的一个害羞的人。因为她总是站在我身边的时候我决定不符合对同伴的压力，她帮助我成为自信以及。
Q4）谈了个人如何关注自己的外表和它如何影响他们的自信和自尊。作者声称，在大约一个自信的自我知觉，是个体保持自己的外表变得越来越重要，这就是为什么很多都转向了整形手术来改变他们的表现，根据他们如何看待他们自己的美丽。
